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Practical reading for adults who’d like to talk to new people more often. The first guide covers small conversation habits, what the 5-3-1 rule means, and a four-week plan.

A practical guide

How to Be More Social: Small Habits That Make Conversations Easier

Being more social is mostly small habits, repeated. How to open, follow up and end conversations, what the 5-3-1 rule means, and a simple 4-week plan.

September 30, 2026 · 10 min read

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